The Blog
Learning How to Say Sorry
It’s Christmas! A time that is known for fun, celebration, giving and eating too much. But unfortunately for many, Christmas also brings back memories of pain and conflict. As much as we would like our families to represent something homely and safe, it's not the case for everyone. Including Christians.
3 Questions of the Disillusioned
The fact that any leaders fall into sin, is one of the most disillusioning experiences a believer can go through. And as is typical of disillusionment, a host of unanswered questions are often at the centre of the experience.
The Year of Reward
I have always felt uncomfortable with the idea of my faith being invested in what I gain from it. Though this seems like a noble sentiment, in its extreme, there is discomfort with receiving obvious God-given blessing.
Hungry & Thirsty
We tend to misdiagnose our souls’ hunger for something else. For instance, instead of recognising that our souls are hungry for deep satisfaction, we assume we just need a holiday, or get more organised, or work harder, or end that relationship, quit that church, get up earlier, be more in control, get married...soul hunger is not very easy to recognise, because societally we haven’t trained ourselves to listen to its cues. In fact, we hardly acknowledge its existence.
The Gift of Receiving
As Christmas Day approaches, I have found myself thinking about how it seems so easy to give and receive gifts at Christmas time. It’s a socially sanctioned time for the giving and receiving of gifts. But outside of those times ordained by general society, I know that some of us really struggle to receive gifts. It’s not that we don’t like what has been purchased, but the act of receiving is awkward.
Guarding Against Gaslighting
Being 5 foot 2 has meant ruling out a whole host of occupations. All my dreams of being a basketball player were over by the time I turned 10 years old. And forget about being a stewardess…
Pink-Elephant Spotting
I can’t stand those magic eye pictures! I have never been able to see the secret picture. Even more annoying is how people who can see it, make out like it’s so simple. I am a very imaginative person, but for some reason, I’m too literal when it comes to magic eye pictures…doesn’t make sense. I’m so glad magic eyes have disappeared from pop culture and restored my confidence…
Freedom from Fear
Somewhere along the lines, my daughter developed a fear of spiders. For as long as I can remember, she has been apprehensive around them including the teeny-weeny little ones that would die from a decent adult sneeze. Over the Christmas holidays, her fear reached an unhealthy level.